Today, or actually yesterday was my sister's birthday. One of her favorite days of the year. She would go to the casino and there they would have this special birthday for their regulars...and she was a regular. Waiters would all come into the room at once carrying cakes with sparklers on them. She loved it.
But unfortunately, very unfortunately she passed away 2 years ago of a weird flesh eating evil disease, that none of us had ever heard of...Necrotizing fasciitis. I'm sure you or anyone you know knew of this disease or couldn't believe it was just a plot from a horror movie. She went unwillingly into the hospital on another one of her favorite holidays...Christmas. What's so sad is that Shelley was a tutor and loved the kids that came to her for help. She performed miracles with some. At her funeral I got to meet many of the kids and the kids of their kids that had been to Shelley for help in math or anything. Their eyes you could see the pride of their accomplishments through the help she would provide. Some she didn't even charge for sessions, depending on their families situations. She just wanted them to succeed, and did she!
I could never come to turns with God on how someone that was helping these kids to gain confidence and get into college could be taken away in such a painful, tragic way. There are so much evil in this world, a few I could name that are still being sloughs and being just a waste of space in this world. Maybe, probably not, I will come to terms with this one day.
My other sister, Kim wrote this beautiful entry onto her FaceBook page. It is beautiful and so true....
On this day, in what seems to me a blink of an eye ago, a woman was born who did some pretty great things. She didn’t invent a device that changed the world, or bring to life a mystical far away land, or paint a work of art hung in a museum and revered by all. She did something a bit greater than all of that. She pushed children to excel when they didn't think it was possible. She inspired them to be excited to learn when boredom or worry had crept in. She helped kids get into colleges they wanted, when they weren't sure they had a chance. And perhaps, through all of that, she changed the lives of many. She was a tutor.
She cared.
She was the person to call if you were ecstatic by some glorious life event, or if you were racked with doubt. She rejoiced with you, or shouldered your tears.
She loved her family, and she loved her husband. Dearly. And we all knew.
She had a beautiful voice, a twinkle in her eye, and a wicked sense of humor.
So today I'd like to remember her a little differently than I do every other day. Every other day I simply have random conversations with her with that vague hope that she can somehow hear me. I've said the prayers. I've placed the flowers.
No, today I want to post these words to celebrate her birth and her life. My sister Shelley. Dear dear sister, you are gone, but you will never be forgotten.
This little light of hers? I want to make it shine again.
She cared.
She was the person to call if you were ecstatic by some glorious life event, or if you were racked with doubt. She rejoiced with you, or shouldered your tears.
She loved her family, and she loved her husband. Dearly. And we all knew.
She had a beautiful voice, a twinkle in her eye, and a wicked sense of humor.
So today I'd like to remember her a little differently than I do every other day. Every other day I simply have random conversations with her with that vague hope that she can somehow hear me. I've said the prayers. I've placed the flowers.
No, today I want to post these words to celebrate her birth and her life. My sister Shelley. Dear dear sister, you are gone, but you will never be forgotten.
This little light of hers? I want to make it shine again.